Unedited SHE Medicine from me + SHE
Hmmm, if you’ve been feeling torn between how you feel and how you act, the SASSY SHE Oracle Cards are showing you COMPASSION. So often we’re told to be consistent, to fake it til we make it, but one of the many joys of being a woman of which there are millions is that we are gloriously inconsistent – we show up in each phase of our menstrual cycle as at least 4 different women, and it’s really okay to feel like you’re a walking talking paradox.
Just because one moment you feel like Freya the fearless and the next you’re fretful Frieda does not make you weak.
This is NOT a bad thing.
Embrace the paradox, BE the paradox:
Fierce AND feminine
Strong AND Soft
Compassionate AND ‘zero fucks given’
Just because one moment you feel like Freya the fearless and the next you’re fretful Frieda does not make you weak in the same way that having big love and a thumpy heart to save the world, yet caring very little about what people think of you doesn’t make you fake – it’s a beautiful paradoxical mash up of being a woman.
Hurrah for that.
List all the paradoxes that you’re feeling right now, don’t judge them, instead be kind + compassionate with yourself as you explore them, realising that you don’t have to one or the other, the virgin OR the whore debate is over, BE the paradox.
Medicine for your SHEquest this week:
Cacao – I recommend the ceremonial kind – if you can, come to a SHE Chocolate experience and feel this incredible medicine work its magic – but if not, a 70% or higher cacao consistency is potent SHE medicine for exploring what it is to be a woman with love + compassion.
Rose Quartz - carries a soft feminine energy of compassion and peace, tenderness and healing, nourishment and comfort. It speaks directly to the Heart Chakra, dissolving emotional wounds, fears and resentments
Palo Santo – burn this to cleanse yourself of any shoulds, woulds + coulds and make space for love, kindness + compassion
SHE – give gratitude to the divine SHE because SHE is YOU.